MOVING OUT..

In: Random

13 Nov 2011

Today, I decided to transfer to a new “home”. I’m having a lot of troubles configuring codes and even posting entries lately. Since Multiply (I had my photos stored there then embed them on this blog) changed interface, I found it difficult to find good photo host. I tried using Imageshack yet I am not satisfied (look at what happened to my previous entry). I am on the process of transferring from WordPress to Blogger as I found it easier since I could just write (and insert photos) on Windows Live Writer and have it published on Blogspot.

Too bad, I’ve just renewed this domain even before its expiry in December. Tsk! Sayang ang bayad.. pangkape din yon. Hahaha! Joooke! :P

Will visit your blogs one by one and leave my new url.. that is, if you are still interested in reading my thoughts. :D

Unknown to many, Singapore is not just about buildings and business districts. It still has “untouched” parts. One of which is Pulau Ubin, the last kampung (village) in this small country.

Ubin is a remnant of what Singapore life was about four decades ago, simple and laidback. Very much different from the forever busy central Singapore. This island is quiet, surrounded by trees (especially coconut) and mangroves.

How to get there:

Take a boat at Changi Ferry Terminal to Pulau Ubin (S$2 each).

Biking is probably the best activity that you can do here. You can rent from a lot of stores for only S$6 (one whole day!) though the picture below says $2.. Hahaha!

Be careful though, coz there are rough roads and muds, even accident prone areas. When we were there, there was a Chinese girl who’s got bruises all over her body. She lost control on a steep road going down (Tip: when the sign on the road says DISMOUNT AND PULL, just do so.. it’s better to carry your bike when you’re not confident.. Sometimes it doesn’t hurt to be a coward, you know..)

It was raining that day and the roads were wet, hence, I got a little scared..

Another thing that you can do here is sightseeing. And taking lots of pictures. The island is beautiful and picturesque.

There’s also some kind of a museum (or a house, not sure.. hehe)

You can have photoshoot and goof around.. nyahahah!

You can eat Ais Kacang (like halo-halo in the Philippines) too!

Isn’t it awesome for a $10 getaway?

For someone like me who’s got hectic schedule, it is already a perfect weekend getaway because:

  • The place alone is relaxing, you can never go wrong with the secluded beach and lots of trees..
  • It was some sort of workout. Biking is fun, at the same time, an exercise. (Just don’t forget to warm up before biking, it could be really painful if you don’t stretch your muscles first)
  • It became a bonding activity for me and for my flatmates.

If you have plans of staying for a couple of weeks in Singapore, be sure not to miss trekking/biking in Pulau Ubin.. it’s like going home to the province when you feel like escaping from the city. :)

CLOSING TIME

In: Friendship|Work

27 Oct 2011

Today is a gloomy Thursday. Apart from the rain, negative emotions are inside the four corners of where I am situated.

For the past few months that I’ve been working for this company, I usually start my day by calling/sending out e-mails (from my misfortunes and a lot of hilarious things/events to chismis and kalokohan) to my colleague; by lunch time I would call her again and ask her if she has packed lunch, otherwise, we would go out and eat together with other colleagues; by 7PM I would call her again to ask what time she will be going out coz we take the bus at the same stop.

By these you can already figure how close we are, debunking my own theory (and decision) that you can never have real friends at work.

Apparently, her last day of service was last Tuesday. I just learned about it yesterday when she sent me an SMS saying she will no longer report for work starting Thursday (which is today). She resigned due to reasons that I opted not to disclose anymore. It was sudden and she chose not to tell anyone immediately as she didn’t want people to worry about her. I think she’s perfectly fine, except that she has to find a job soon if she still wants to stay here in Singapore (as soon as her Employment Pass is canceled, she can only stay here in the country for a maximum of 30days as Social Visit Pass holder)

She is one of my favorite colleagues for the reasons that: we share the same interests, I guess we have the same wavelength.. we both love to crack a joke.. we can communicate in Singlish (another reason why I am often mistaken as Singaporean, aside from being chinky eyed and having thin/brown hair). She speaks her mind (just like I do), she’s a grammar freak (haha!) coz she’s a Communications graduate of one of the prestigious universities in the Philippines.. and… she’s a 36 too (bwahahahah!) :P

I know life at work will never be the same without her. I no longer have my fan when it comes to doing stand up comedy (nyahahah!); someone I talk to about my passion for Korean drama and blogging/writing.. about novels, movies and forms of art and literature.

It’s always been sad to be the one that’s left behind but somehow it’s fine. After all, no one stays forever, right? It’s just a matter of how soon people will come out of your life.

I just wish her all the best and may she take a glimpse of the career path that she’s been dying to track. She doesn’t really enjoy recruiting so I hope she can have the will to pursue her dreams of getting into arts or literature.

I hope we can work again in the future, in case she decides to pursue being a Human Resources practitioner.

PS: We both love Friends With Benefits, hence, this entry’s title.

PET PEEVES

In: Personal|Random

19 Oct 2011

My friends tell me I am always cranky. I couldn’t agree more, I guess I was sleeping when God showered the earth with this trait called composure. I am ill-tempered and my patience isn’t enough to just ignore annoying things (and people) around me.

And since I’ve been irritable the past few days, let me just give you an idea of how grumpy I can get. Below is a list of simple/shallow things that cause me to lose my temper.

1. Improper use of they’re/their/there; your/you’re; didn’t + base form of the verb; and a lot of grammatical errors. (It’s okay tho if they’re not pa-konyo, I would understand)
2. Noisy eaters. I hate it when I am with someone who chews with sound (takam, in Tagalog) and talks too much.
3. Not using serving spoon when sharing food.
4. Drinking water/juice directly from the container (shared bottle); I just drink beer and juice/soda straight from the bottle if it’s only mine to consume.
5. Girl/Gurl/Ghurl. My friends call me dude, tsong, brad/brod, pare. I hate people abusing the word “girl”, like using it 3x in a sentence. Haha. :lol:
6. Gay lingo overload. I scold my officemate whenever she tells me “yung churfer.. blahblah churfer.. na chorvaness..” Arrrghhh.
7. Wet doorknob. I usually grab the knob when going out of the bathroom using toilet paper.
8. When other people use my slippers/shoes.
9. Used clothes on the couch/bed/chair/table.
10. Tasting food using ladle when cooking.
11. Wet utensils. I have to dry the plates/spoon/fork first using napkin before eating.
12. Noisy people in front of the TV (except when the program being shown’s basketball/football/boxing/UFC).
13. Negative people sharing sappy love stories over and over and over again. You can tell me one or two times, but not forever.
14. Someone who thinks like he’s got all the problems in the whole wide universe. Go, drown yourself!
15. “Liking” your own post on Facebook. Duh.. would you post something you don’t even like?
16. you/u/me (when used in a Taglish sentence – san na u? dito na me), q, aq, toh.. and a lot more jejemon-ish terms. Kumukulo dugo ko pag nakakabasa ng mga to, seryoso.
17. Someone singing while I’m busy working (all the more when it’s kind of operatic or bossa). I love listening to itunes while working, but not to feeling divas.

Hmmmmmm.. what else? I think I missed out a lot, I just can’t dig my thoughts much today. Next time for sure I have some others to add up on my list… coz everyday I realize that many things can cause irritation. :lol:

PS: Please don’t use any of them to intentionally annoy me. :P

I’m not a “series” type of person. While a lot of people of my age are dying to see every episode of the likes of House, Vampire Diaries, Grey’s Anatomy and a lot more, I am always stuck in writing, taking and editing photos, reading the news and current events. I think the last show that I was able to follow was Desperate Housewives a few years ago. I’ve seen some episodes of One Tree Hill, Chuck and How I Met Your Mother but never really got hooked.

Today, I am glad to announce (naks parang artista lang) that I’ve been religiously following this new sitcom called New Girl. The show stars Zooey Deschanel (of 100 Days of Summer) as Jess, Jake Johnson as Nick, Max Greenfield as Schmidt, Lamorne Morris as Winston and Hannah Simone as Cece. It’s effin’ hilarious and cute. It’s only on its 3rd episode but so far I’ve been enjoying it.

The Plot:

Jess is an eccentric, fun-loving girl who was cheated on by her long time boyfriend. While trying to get over the heartbreak, she looked for a new place to live in and eventually moved in with three single guys: Nick, a bartender; Schmidt, a slutty kind of guy and Coach, a former athlete turned trainer. Later on, Coach was replaced by the original flatmate, Winston who came back from his basketball stint in Latvia. Together they will make Jess’ life totally different — from finding herself once more, getting over a breakup, learning more about life and love, awesome friendship, fun and so much more.

Why I love this show?

I like Zooey Deschanel. I find her beautiful and her eyes are mesmerizing. She can pull off the role of a naive girl (such an innocent looking face) at the same time, act like a tease, even the oblivious kind of one. She can sing too (tho sometimes I find her singing annoying, like Smurfs’.. :D )

Jess (Zooey’s character) is a lot like me. A drama queen, a hopeless romantic, somewhat annoying (yeah, my friends often tell me this), full of antics, never cared about how she looks and how stupid she can get while having fun (Jess has this chicken dance to the tune of Groovy Kind of Love while I do the “running man” moves and Raggamuffin girl steps even in public :lol: ). Jess loves putting on her “vampire” prop teeth while I love taking my chocolate-cake-stuck-in-between-my-teeth slash “bungal” picture (you can see my collection if we’re connected on Facebook).

Zooey and her teeth

AC and her teeth

AC and her teeth

I just love how carefree and bubbly Jess is.

Like her, I am also surrounded by guy friends.  I am a “tomboy”, not really being a lesbian, just the boyish kind of girl in terms of the way I dress, I speak, my gestures and the groups where I belong. In high school, while my girl classmates are busy practicing for cheerdance competition, I was just watching. While they were looking proud in their skirts and dresses, I was happy with my DMs and baggy jeans (until I was forced to join a beauty pageant.. where I took off my stilettos while on stage.. hahaha!) :lol:

My boy friends are often mistaken as my boyfriends, significant others, flings or sadly, fuck buddies (pardon me for my language, but that is the reality nowadays). Being a Filipina that I am, the culture somehow remains to be that a girl should not be close friends with boys (e.g. going out a lot with them, watching movies with them, spending the night with them, sleeping beside them.. all wholesome activities, of course), otherwise, you will be discriminated the way I have often been misunderstood by the double standard, effin’ judgmental flock of some Filipinos (just recently I cried because of this.. here in Singapore). Anyway, it’s really awesome having boy friends coz you’d get to take a peek into the world of arrogance (haha! just kidding! :lol: ). I think it’s good coz it can help in handling your relationships by understanding more of the other side (the world of men that is), it can teach you how to be more objective.

Love and relationships are also tackled in this show. Like Jess, I’ve never been lucky in love and got dumped (a LOT of times already) by the men I loved; feeling like the world turned its back on me, crying my heart out and wasting time watching sappy movies. Jess watches Dirty Dancing and sings Time of My Life a couple of times in a day to her flatmates’ disgust. One More Chance, starring John Lloyd and Bea was once my Time of My Life. Hahaha! :lol:

But no matter how annoying she is, or how disgusting she may seem to be.. she is still well-loved and appreciated by her friends. Just like me. I guess this is the only thing that matters to me now — to have people who will accept me for who I am. Anyway, you cannot please everybody, right? So just stick with the people who will stand by you no matter what happens and forget those who don’t really care. :)

Food for Thought

Only when we are no longer afraid do we begin to live.

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